Post 3 s/Hubby 1 -vs- Domme 0

In the Bedroom

We had fun. I massaged her again and she enjoyed it. She had me suck and lick her clit which I was honored to do. She had us finish with a 69 and a strong orgasm that ended with her clit pulsating in my mouth. She cum’s harder when she feels my nose on her asshole. I’d like her to feel comfortable ordering me to do it; it is very dominate to make me accept her scent. In the future I’ll wait until she orders me to do it  . .  then enjoy the feeling of her dominance while she enjoys amusing herself by making me rub my nose on her asshole. I think she will.  She likes it, her orgasms are more intense, and this is a perfect opportunity to practice giving orders as Domme.

Thereafter, I started fucking her and she asked if I wanted to finish with her face down. She got lost in the moment and let me fuck her face down and ass in the air. Only after I shot my load did she remember that she was Domme and that she forgot to make me cum on her orders.

Sometimes Domme wins . .  and sometimes s/Hubby wins 🙂



Out of the Bedroom

Domme seems open to the pussy kissing ritual. This ritual contains that little sexual spark that lets us have a sexual connection outside of the bedroom, not just in the bed.  I want to be closer with her, hopefully with time she’ll begin to feel the same way.  It is nice to note that that each time I kissed her pussy she watched and smiled as I did it.  She turns me on so much that just having me kiss her ass makes my dick hard.  As for which words to say it doesn’t matter as long as she is ordering her s/Hubby to do it. Whatever words come to mind, like: Show Respect, Show Submission, or just  – Submit.


Final Note: Scent Training

Part of the fun of D/s is for the Domme to amuse herself by physically dominating her willing bitch.  In the two pictures both Domme’s are scent training their bitches.  However, the Domme in the upper picture is also marking her bitch on the nose.   He’ll have to know Domme’s scent until she allows him to wash; maybe not till after love making, or even after dinner;  whatever amuses her.

Post 2 Rituals

Last Night
I am very proud of my wife, from going forward she is my Domme. After reading Post 1 she was very sweet and loving. She asked for a massage and I obeyed. Normally I would never give a massage at night. She talked dirty to me (which I like) and was dominating in her topics.   I love her ♥


I have a little learning to do yet. The first time she asked me to empty my balls I did not want to end it as I was having too much fun. Eventually she told me to empty them again and I complied. I have to learn to listen to her and obey. She owns my balls.  Next time she tells me to empty my balls I will obey. She’s Domme, she decides when I cum, not me !



Daily Greetings (Respect Ritual)

The following morning Domme was in a hurry to get to work and I pestered her about the Respect Ritual. She wasn’t completely clean and was uncomfortable. So I think we should just keep it very simple.

  • I’ll kiss her pussy only.  Over whatever she is wearing.
  • It will only be part of the morning/return home greeting.
  • We’ll kiss  .  .  and then she’ll follow up with two words, “Show Respect”.
  • Thereafter, she’ll smile while she watches me kiss her pussy in submission.


Why have the Ritual

It acknowledges daily that she is my Domme. There is clearly a dominate element because she is giving me a soft order to show respect (which I like), and a submissive sexual element because I am showing submission to her pussy. For me, doing this ritual creates a sensual and lasting connection with her. And over time I think she’ll enjoy the feeling of being Domme and watching me submit to her pussy. I hope she continues it. In the end it is up to her.


Note:  I couldn’t help but notice that in the second photo Domme decided to cage her bitch so he could only focus on her clit, her pleasure, and her orgasm.  Hmmm  . . maybe  s/Hubby wasn’t’ listening to her commands and needed a little obedience training?

Post 1 D/s Marriage


Vanilla Marriage

As with a lot of marriages ours has become ‘sexually vanilla’ and a bit cold over the years.  We lack passion in our relationship. Being intimate for a few minutes once or twice a week with nothing else leaves us unconnected. She works a lot and that too can kill intimacy, but it doesn’t have to. We need something that helps us maintain a connection throughout the day, even though we’re apart for most of it.

To that end a D/s relationship with daily encounters, however short, can be intimate and sexual and thus reinforce the intimate connection between us while at the same time being fun.  It is the psychological and emotional connection that is important.  Several times a day we can interact with a sexual component, a little sparkle, that says I’m enjoying you and later this week we’ll consummate that feeling.




Why D/s?

So why D/s?  For one thing Domination /submission will increase the intensity of our relationship. It is easy and fun; and most importantly takes minimal effort on her part.  Most importantly, from the moment Wifey becomes Domme she has 100% say over what we do; no more pressure from s/Hubby.  She’ll be boss, free to try out her fantasies, and make me do unspeakable things. In return, I will enjoy being the object of her desires.  And the fact that her desires are now dominant and twisted should make for interesting passion.   I love my wife and would enjoy serving her.   So why not let me?




Respect Ritual

This blog is more about my thoughts on our D/s interactions, on fulfilling her desires.  From the moment Wifey declares she is my Domme I no longer have a say on our activities.  I’ll merely be writing on my feeling and thoughts on Domme’s choices in this blog; but just this one time let me suggest a daily ritual to kick things off. A quick intimate moment where we enjoy this D/s power play at a few key points of the day:

  • mornings,
  • evenings when she comes home, and
  • before going to bed

At these times of the day Domme requires a showing of respect by making me kiss it. And “It” can be:

  • her feet,
  • her pussy,
  • her ass, or
  • her asshole (after every bath).

For her part this ritual only requires that she Make the Command. She can then smile and enjoy my act of sexual submission to her – with no more effort on her part. So, Wifey must ask herself:  Does she enjoy being Domme?  Does she like the thought of making s/Hubby ‘do it’ when she gives a sexually dominate command?  Will she officially say and declare that: From this moment forward I am your Domme and you will obey me!

From this day forward it is up to her 🙂